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Giving and SacrificeNovember 30, 2008
My response was that this outlook saw gift giving as a purely economic exchange in which someone sacrificed money in order to give someone else joy. My outlook, and the outlook of most people, is that there is much joy (maybe more) in giving than receiving. That moment on Christmas morning when a child opens a present deeply desired is a moment that both parent and child will long remember. Yes, there is economic sacrifice but there is great emotional gain. The notion is best summed up in O’Henry’s wonderful and very short story, “The Gift of the Magi.” We don’t hear as much about O’Henry as we used to, but he was a wonderful story teller who lived in the late 19th century. His stories were known for their wit, their warmth and their trick endings. In this particular story, a young couple has no money so each has to sacrifice their most precious possession to buy the other a gift. She sells her hair in order to give him a fob for his pocket watch and he sells his pocket watch to buy her combs for her hair. Their gifts were truly a testament to their love for each other. The story ends with the following words: And here I have lamely related to you the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. But in a last word to the wise of these days let it be said that of all who give gifts these two were the wisest.
Posted by Richard Gottlieb on November 30, 2008 | Comments (2)
November 30, 2008
In response to: Giving and Sacrifice Tiggy commented: “My response was that this outlook saw gift giving as a purely economic exchange…”
December 1, 2008
In response to: Giving and Sacrifice Anthony commented: When I see a BMW commercial I'm not going out and buy something that is outside of my means. I realize that my income dictates the more modest and affordable brands. I believe foundation on our childrens expectations lie with us as parents. If ypu are overweight do you blame fast food for advertising? Look we live in a society of different levels of means ans whether poor, middle class, rich or wealthy it is up to you to set the limits. My children have had all types of christmas, from lavish where a few thousand was spent, as well as sparring where we were only able to spend a couple of hundred on all three kids. Advertising does not dictate what I am going to buy and it also helps teach a basic learning experience my children will need to be able to survive not only christmas, but life in general. That lesson is "
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